Influence in regards to attraction?

[Squeezer]

It's not that I want my mother, just that I want some of the characteristics she has in my future wife.

[NaiLed]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex

haha i was thinking that.

anyway, da1 suffers from the Electra complex

[Epinephrine]

I have no idea what influenced who I find attractive, but chances are, if a girl is skinny and would be described as "looking like a (rat, mouse, rabbit, any sort of rodent)" I find her extremely attractive.

You must really like Katie Holmes...

(or if Allen Iverson has daughters... =) )

[Stabwound]

Man, why doesn't anyone like the fatties?

I don't mean morbidly obese; that's sickening. 20-30 pounds overweight is fine with me, though, and I'm one of the skinniest people you'll ever see.

[Mantra-Slider]

I will continue in the same footsteps that some other guys already began with. There are some things with a woman that makes her beatiful no matter how she actually looks physically.

I want my girl to be happy and spontanius but at the same time calm and selfconfident but not cocky. Someone once said that there is nothing more beatiful than a womans smile and as *cheesy* as it sounds I think its actually true alot of times.
My girlfriend definitley has to be smart, gladly smarter than me even (pooooooh). I remember when I was in high school and was together with a girl that had straight A's and how proud I was of this (altho never told anyone of course) and used it as a way of describing her you know? letting it explain that she was good and ambitious (unlike me? haha).
She doesnt have to be productivly funny and telling jokes and good stories and stuff but she sure as hell must think I am funny and laugh at my jokes cos that makes me feel alot better. Above all I really want her to understand irony and sarcasm and aggressive humour cos its such a big part of my life. It seems like, generally speaking, that men/boys are alot better at understanding and accepting irony than girls/women, why is that?

Another important part for me is how she behaves around others. its important that she always know how to act and behave you know? I dont want to sound like a dick here but I want her to know when to talk and not talk and when its okey to freak out and not haha. I dont want to feel ashamed of her! I want her to work well with my friends but above all with my family. sure my family would pretty much accept anyone I pick as gf but for me its really awesome if I watch my girl hold a real conversation with my mum before the dinner when we are visiting my parents on the sunday afternoon.

Another thing that I think is important but didnt see mentioned already is the way she dress and her style! I dont want some extreme girl who are either very "left" in her way of dressing,or very hip hopisch, punkisch,slutty,rich etc. I dont mind normal functional dressing to be honest, as long as she dress up nice when the time is right (parties, dinners etc), cos thats how I am. Dont think I could take a girl who is really into clothes and has like 674326743 different outfits and is really concerned about what she wears.. ALL THE TIME.

When it comes to actual physical attributes i have already mentioned the smile and Im definitley an ass-person. But not in the way that
"the bigger the better" but a nice ass is just really nice not that it matters that much tho, but a great bonus.
Finally I must add that I have a thing for hair and haircuts. I think its extremley sexy whith a girl who likes to try different haircolour or colour the locks of the hair. Im not talking green and red or something silly like that here but fashionable dark,light brown blonde w/e. I Also really like if she mix her hairstyle and haircut, that she use many different kinds and are not afraid to test. I definitley Prefer long hair in favour of short.. maybe cos it gives more options to experiment?

hehe I liked this subject it seems, never typed this much, ever!

[Miku19]

I pretty much agree with all the stuff mantra said.

I also like a nice pair of eyes a lot. One celebrity that totally owns in this category is Alexis Bledel.

[DoTheFandango]

What do you think has influenced you the most in regards to who you find attractive, or what type of the opposite sex that you find attractive?

Probably personality, intelligence, music taste for non-physical attributes, then I have this illness for really athletic girls even though I'm a lazy slob who does nothing but play guitar and download music. I tend to be really nice to chicks though, and they really digg that.

Your family? Your friends, or the general consensus on what is "hot" in your social setting (high school, college campus, work, etc).

A lot of my friends are all about the overall hottness of a chick, which has a direct correlation of how slutty they are and how much they tend to put out. Nice asses are key, big tits are welcome, and loose vags a must.

Last but not least, where do you live and what type of girls/guys do you like? What is usually liked or most popular in your area?

Southern, Suburban, Connecticut with alot of people like the kind of chick seen in Gilmore Girls or, shockingly, the OC. I actually don't know about the latter, but my sister swears on it.

The guys are typical in all the areas. You have jocks, nerds, stoners, art kids, etc.

I guess I live in Suburbia.

[Melon]

Fandango's ideal woman.

[DoTheFandango]

I don't see the need to hate on me, seeing as I have no idea who the fuck you are. I didn't insult anyone else here, and I'm without a doubt not going to insult you, because its not worth it.

LB posted an intelligent post, at least respect that before this turns into a flame war.

[Melon]

It was actually a joke, seeing as the girl pictured is wearing the "fandango" puppet. But I guess some people do not watch movies and have no clue what it's about. Sorry if my joke was not funny to you -_-

[DoTheFandango]

It was actually a joke, seeing as the girl pictured is wearing the "fandango" puppet. But I guess some people do not watch movies and have no clue what it's about. Sorry if my joke was not funny to you -_-

Guess not.

[Epinephrine]

I pretty much agree with all the stuff mantra said.

I also like a nice pair of eyes a lot. One celebrity that totally owns in this category is Alexis Bledel.

She's okay... too bad her forehead is the size of my car.

[D1st0rt]

Most Attractive Black Actrice

ffff

[Mantra-Slider]

wtfz phren agrees with me!!

[Galleleo]

Style is important to me 2. I like a girl that dresses nice, maybe a bit rich, but is also comfortable in just wearing easy clothles. Like a jogging suit or whatever. So that doesn't really care to much about how she looks. I just like her taste to be fancy, for lack of better description.