My friend just got engaged to a bad person.

[Noah]

They got together about 2-3 years ago, and already back then some of our mutual friends told me that they didn't like her. Back then I liked her because she was nicer to me than to his other friends, but now I know her much better. The only ones that really likes her now is him and his family. Even the parents of my friends dislikes her, and she's the only person that isn't allowed to come to the parties we have at Retard's parent's place. Untill they got engaged a few days ago we always had a hope that something would fuck up and that they'd split up. I've kept up a front and I'm nice to her as much as I can. She's to arrogant to think that anyone dislikes her anyway.

Now that they are engaged it isn't that easy to split them up anymore. He was the one that proposed to her, even after he told us that they weren't doing great about half a year ago. It took some heavy drinking of just the three of us best friends for him to admit it (Superman, Retard and Whipped (Superman always comes first)).

I'm split on what to do here. Either I can keep trying to help Whipped realize that he is doing the biggest mistake of his life, or I have to accept that this is his choise. If I do the last one then the friend I had a few years ago will be gone forever. I'm scared of overdoing it and losing a very good friend in the process, but then again I'll lose him in another way if they get married. What would you guys do?

Edited after Galleleos request for easier reading.

[gran guerrero]

sucks to hear bro, shit happens to friends who fall in love.

Pussy makes men forget who they were and this is true internationally, as I've seen this in soo many good friends of mine, whom I barely speak to anymore.

You either are going to have to accept that he's lost to the dark side.

Or

You have to concoct an ingenious plan to rescue him (I.E. Saving Silverman)

OR

You have to make some concessions with the girlfriend (Like visiting rights on weekends or something)

or...

You have to kill the bitch.

I don't suggest anything that might get you in trouble. By the way, Hi noah, long time no talk.

[DoTheFandango]

just tell him, if he doesn't want to hear it he shouldn't have done it. if you guys are really good friends, you gotta tell him. he'll probably just be like "fuck you guys, you just don't know her like I do" but the most you can do is just tell him. don't hide feelings from friends, makes it much harder to say I told you so afterwards.

[Noah]

Yeah, far too long. Superman still haven't gotten internet because the DSL central is full. There's more to it, but that's the short version. Superman is considering to move again very soon just to get back on the net, life without internet is like a pussy without a hole.

Edit: DTF posted as I wrote this post. When we (Superman and Retard) talked to Whipped about half a year ago we basically told him that he needed to get out of the relationship. I'm pretty sure that he knows how we feel, the only thing left is to say stuff like "dude, everyone hates her" etc.

Edited after Galleleos request for easier reading.

[gran guerrero]

Yeah, far too long. I still haven't gotten internet because the DSL central is full. There's more to it, but that's the short version. I'm considering to move again very soon just to get back on the net, life without internet is like a pussy without a hole.

Edit: DTF posted as I wrote this post. When we talked to him about half a year ago we basically told him that he needed to get out of the relationship. I'm pretty sure that he knows how we feel, the only thing left is to say stuff like "dude, everyone hates her" etc.

lol there's always anal and oral

but I guess I can see the heartbreak when you try to put it into the vag and it just won't go in!

[milosh]

I've broken off a bad engagement before. She wasn't nearly as bad as you make this girl sound, but she wasn't right for me to spend the rest of my life with. It really takes an intervention from a loved one; you have to catch her in the act of doing one of her awful deeds and then kindly stab your friend in the chest with it until he gets some common sense in him. Wait for a situation to arise in which one of her undesirable features rears its ugly head to everyone and then intervene with some other people he trusts(close family is good if available). It will be really painful for him, but it's what he needs.

EDIT: He probably has some other issues that you as a friend could help with. When you're in a relationship like that it's usually because its comfortable. He's staying with her because he figures its better than being alone. You need to show him how to be "alone" by supporting him as a friend, and letting him know that marriage isn't something you go into doubting, settling, or committing to just because its comfortable. He should marry someone that inspires him and makes him a better version of himself.

[gran guerrero]

You're friend sounds like my friend whose girlfriend everyone practically hates, but the only difference is my friend is the DICK in the relationship and tells her what's up. He hangs out with us because if she acts up like a ho, he's leaving her (and she's so dependent and clingy, so she won't leave)

It really is awesome to see role reversal

Girls crave cock just as much guys crave pussy. You don't give your girlfriend the penis, then she will become bitchy, give her the dick and she will be satisfied (Proven that semen is an anti-depressant, thank you manswers)

[Capital Knockers]

time is on your side my friend. as long as he knows how you guys feel, there really isn't all that much to do. I was 'the friend' you're talking about up until about a month ago. I was talking about marriage and shit like some idiot. My friends didn't hate her, but she was completely straight edge - no smoke, no drink, didn't even eat red meat. didn't watch violence on tv, or in movies, hated crude jokes (anyone who knows me is asking, wtf how did you stay with her a week). So yeah. Point is, I loved her with everything in me, gave it a year and a half of my life. In the end, if it isn't right for him - I'm sure he, or his girl will figure it out.

Do what my friends did. Stay in contact, have your feelings known, but don't badger him. Try to give him a place to escape the gf once in a while. Maybe he'll realize how much he missed that place, and the people in it. I know I did. Just don't force him either way, I really think thats a bad idea - unless she REALLY bad for him. Like high heels digging into the back of his neck and the choke chain making his face turn purple.

[gran guerrero]

yeah offer him incentives to come back to you

like another woman
free smokeouts
free drinks
get where I'm going?

[HateTheFake]

2 sure ways to get them to split

1- Try having one of your friends bang her

2- Try having one of your friends bang him

After they cheat they will most likely break up...

[gran guerrero]

2 sure ways to get them to split

1- Try having one of your friends bang her

2- Try having one of your friends bang him

After they cheat they will most likely break up...

yeah...only problem with that is... won't go there.

[Money]

yeah offer him incentives to come back to you

like another woman
free smokeouts
free drinks
get where I'm going?

LOL

"dude, come back and u can fuck my sister"

[Noah]

LOL

"dude, come back and u can fuck my sister"

Hahaha, if I had a sister I'd go with this one for sure!

Superman will probably try what Capital Knockers said. milosh's advice was good as well, but it wouldn't go well on Whipped considering his personality. He's not very good at direct confrontations, so he'd just nod his head and slowly try to get the fuck away.

Edited after Galleleos request for easier reading.

[Galleleo]

First off, assign some names, that makes reading it a bunch easier, it can be fake names for all I care.

Second, what exactly is she doing that is so wrong? Is it like that she openly flirts with others, or cheats, or has no moral scruples. Or is it just the personality that collides with yours and your friends? Does she come off as a bitch to you, or arrogant or something like that?

Because, I would say, if it is purely personality wise but she isn't so much treating him bad, like cheating, toying with him, whatever. Then it is really his choice and you cant do much more then let him know how you feel. But if she is actually doing stuff that (has the potential to) hurt him knowingly then you should fight to make him realise that. I would hope for him that after 2/3 years he would have gotten to know her personality and it would seem like he doesnt mind it, but if she is doing things he is (still) oblivious too, then that is a completely different case.

For instance (maybe a bad example, because I don't really like my brother that much) my brother got his gf knocked up, and now that she is pregnant she keeps on smoking a whole bunch of cigarettes a day anyway, I personally find that retarded and I don't really think she is that awesome of a girl, but I am not going to meddle with that, it is his choice. But would I know that she would be cheating on him or whatever, then I would tell him.

I hope I got my point across.

[gran guerrero]

basically gall just wants some details.