My friend just got engaged to a bad person.

[milosh]

picz plzz

[Noah]

Her name is Cunt, his name is Whipped, my other friends name is Retard and my name is Superman. I'll edit this into my other posts.

Ps. These are real names.

To the other part of Galleleos post: The way she's bad is that she is controlling him way too much. She's forcing him into making bad decisions that favors her. By forcing I mean in the ancient greek siren kind of way. Cunt also puts herself into the center of everything. Even when Whipped met Retard that he hadn't seen for half a year, she left them no space to talk, and kept talking about her injured arm for 2 hours. By always doing this she prevents the contact that Whipped needs from his friends. It's never him and us anymore. It's us, and then her, and on the other side there's him. Retard and Whipped is as good friends as I am with both, and Retard hasn't spoken to Whipped alone since they got together for more than 5 minutes.

[Stylez]

Why are you so worried? If you have a problem with your friends decisions I suggest you part ways and meet new people who don't frustrate you with their lifestyles. That or just accept him and his decision and mind your own affairs.

She may be what works for him. I just think you know you're losing your friend to this woman and hate her for it. Thusly want them to separate. I say you go out, get a life of your own, and let him live his. If she turns out to be a bad thing for him that will be for him to find out, himself. Live and learn.

[R1pp3r]

I can't really see how Cunt is doing anything wrong. The only "bad" you have described is that Cunt likes to stand in the spotlight and Whipped likes having her there. It seems to me like this superman charachter and his hencemen are jealous of Cunt. I have to agree with Stylez that you should go out and get a life of your own and who knows perhaps there is a cunt out there waiting for you.

[gran guerrero]

Why are you so worried? If you have a problem with your friends decisions I suggest you part ways and meet new people who don't frustrate you with their lifestyles. That or just accept him and his decision and mind your own affairs.

She may be what works for him. I just think you know you're losing your friend to this woman and hate her for it. Thusly want them to separate. I say you go out, get a life of your own, and let him live his. If she turns out to be a bad thing for him that will be for him to find out, himself. Live and learn.

You obviously don't understand the concept of bros before hoes

[Cops]

Marriage is all about endurance, if the relationship isn't strong to begin with then marriage shouldn't even be an option.

You've got to talk to him about his relationship, and why if they have so many problems would he ever consider marrying her. I'd also suggest talking about how he's blinded by his love for her, and sometimes people don't really want to see the person underneath. I'm not saying she's as bad as you think she is, you've also got to realize that maybe you're a bit jealous of the attention she gets from him and how you feel like you're losing a friend. It's worth considering before you tell your buddy his girl is completly wrong for him.

[Stylez]

You obviously don't understand the concept of bros before hoes

Obviously she isn't a ho if the guy is willing to consider marriage. It's a good thing to look out for one's friends, but to interfere in that person's love life is another thing. You have to put faith in your friends that they know what they're doing, that's the part of being a bro, trust. You're not a bro by calling your friends girl a ho and trying to ruin what you deem is inappropriate, it's not your life to make right or fuck up.

[Zerzera]

I don't think she's a bad person.

[gran guerrero]

I'm on your side noah, all these guys are dicks.

[Zerzera]

Sie will es und so ist es fein
So war es und so wird es immer sein
Sie will es und so ist es Brauch
Was sie will bekommt sie auch

[Galleleo]

Too me Noah, it sounds like there is not a lot you can or should do. If that is her personality than obviously he has chosen for that and it fits him. All you can do is this situation is have a talk with him about how you see the relationship and ask him why he is putting up with. She isn't really doing anything wrong.

[HandofDeath]

After reading through the entire thread, it sounds like the problem isn't as much the girl as it is your friend. He needs to be able to have a life separately from his girl, and if he doesn't, it's either the girl's fault for being domineering, or your friend's fault for not standing up to her, or your friend's fault for putting the girl so way high up priority-wise that he treats his friends poorly for it. It sounds like it's an intricate combination of all three though.

I guess how I would approach it wouldn't be to bring up the girl as much as your friendship and how it's changed since he started dating the girl. In the end, his relationship is his business, as long as it isn't destructive (although manipulation does give some cause to worry.. it all depends on if that's what he wants, or if it's just something he's not speaking up about). But your friendship is definitely fair game. Let him know about the things he's lost since being in that relationship, because sometimes it's fuckin' hard to realize that when you have a beautiful woman beside you. But man cannot live on woman alone, he needs to have his own life too.

I know all of this really well because I've been in a controlling relationship before. It got to the point where I was putting my girl before almost everything else in my life, and I was blowing off friends because of it. It took me a while to realize exactly what was happening, but eventually I realized how unhappy I was and how much I missed doing things with my friends. I also realized (this took cojones) that it was more my fault because I wasn't voicing my concerns and standing up for myself. We're on a break right now so that I can figure all of this stuff out, and I've gone back to friends and begged them to have me back (thankfully they understand).

The hard thing is that the girl I fell in love with WAS an amazing person; she was just a bit insecure. If you manage to fall in love with somebody, you see their good points a lot better than other people do. That's probably what happened with your friend and that's probably why it's so hard to see that she's doing this.

I guess the last thing I'll say is... I don't know the situation, but it may just be that the relationship overall is a great thing for your bud, but he just needs to learn how to juggle it and his life together. The relationship probably needs adjustments, but that doesn't necessarily mean that it needs to be ended.

Anyway, best of luck to both you and your friend.

[Cylor]

Kill that bitch.

[Adman]

Kill that bitch.

agreed