It is important that I get your opinion on this.

[CrvenBan]

Doesn't putting out count as ANYTHING that can lead to you putting it in ? Be it kissing, heavy petting or rubbing your cock against her ass. If you gonna get her in bed few hrs later, she's still putting out.

Btw, for the record, I think such phrases as putting out, giving it, getting to score are so lame, because how do you know that that girl did not see you as the one putting out ? Also marking women as easy, just because they have same sexual drive and want the sex just as much as you do, is also lame (you meaning pretty much all guys).

But, I do hate those chicks that Face described, fucking teasers that would probably not do anything with that guy anyway, and he's smart that he pulled out in time

[bloodzombie]

Originally posted by CrvenBan
Doesn't putting out count as ANYTHING that can lead to you putting it in ? Be it kissing, heavy petting or rubbing your cock against her ass. If you gonna get her in bed few hrs later, she's still putting out.

Btw, for the record, I think such phrases as putting out, giving it, getting to score are so lame, because how do you know that that girl did not see you as the one putting out ? Also marking women as easy, just because they have same sexual drive and want the sex just as much as you do, is also lame (you meaning pretty much all guys).

But, I do hate those chicks that Face described, fucking teasers that would probably not do anything with that guy anyway, and he's smart that he pulled out in time

I disagree with everything you said.

1. kissing and petting isn't putting out. "If you get her in bed a few hours later..." THAT is when the putting out occurs. what if she bails before that point?

2. There's nothing wrong with her thinking the same thing. You sound like saying that a girl puts out is a bad thing. If everything goes as it should, both parties will be happy and both parties would say they scored.

3. She wasn't a tease.. she was one of those chicks that would go home with a guy and say "I don't usually do this" while she's getting into bed with him. If she was a tease she woudln't have told him that she wasn't putting out. They tease for attention, and for the self esteem boost they get at controlling the guy. By telling him that he's not getting laid, she's tipping her hand and risking him getting off the hook, it just doesn't add up.

[CrvenBan]

Originally posted by bloodzombie
I 1. kissing and petting isn't putting out. "If you get her in bed a few hours later..." THAT is when the putting out occurs. what if she bails before that point?

1. If you get to tounge kiss with girl whole party/night and she lets you slid your hands under her shirt, or feel her ass, or feel your cock over the pants, that's putting out. She wants it, there is no bailing out, it happens only when a guy fucks up on his part, or they run into somone that makes her think in different way than 5mins earlier. Every girl I had been doing that with I got or could have goten into bed (ones that I didn't get were when I didn't want it for different reasons).

2. There's nothing wrong with her thinking the same thing. You sound like saying that a girl puts out is a bad thing. If everything goes as it should, both parties will be happy and both parties would say they scored.

2. Might have said it the wrong way there, but I do think that it is ok, and everyone is happy, and I just love it when a girl has "balls" to speak her mind about what she likes/dislikes. I don't like all that labeling of girls, not because I'm for women-justice or crap but because it mainly fucks up our chances. You have to work so much harder to figure out which girl means what (even tho older chicks are getting better at it) because they all think they're gonna get labeled.

3. She wasn't a tease.. she was one of those chicks that would go home with a guy and say "I don't usually do this" while she's getting into bed with him. If she was a tease she woudln't have told him that she wasn't putting out. They tease for attention, and for the self esteem boost they get at controlling the guy. By telling him that he's not getting laid, she's tipping her hand and risking him getting off the hook, it just doesn't add up.

3. That could be the truth, yes, but she could also be one of those teasers that says they wouldn't put out, so that they would get a guy to work even harder for her that night. She'll get even more attention that way, because her behaviour signals one thing, but she already told the guy he won't get any. And he's thinking: "fuck no, I'm so gonna get some tonight", and he just tries everything in his book. I've seen it happen.

[BiG FlY]

Dude man I can tell you need to have more sex. WTF kinda question is that? putting out for a 10 year old is a kiss on the cheeks. its all how you look at it.