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don't post up your sully ass joke comments on this, this is serious..
I have a problem, she has a complex where she thinks she needs a guy in her life or shes not happy, shes on anti depressants, thinks shes ugly/fat ect., not ever going to have a decent relationship and although it doesn't matter, shes falling in love with me because I'm saying the things shes always wanted to hear... no not I love you or any of that shit, just good ol deep talk about relationships on a higher level, because I once was in her same spot, but instead of her seeing me telling her my old problems and how I had progressed through them to better days, she seems to be falling for me because of the mighty growing up from boy to man, is usually pretty sexy to a gal... I used to want to date her when I was younger, I now have absolutely no WANT to be in a relatioship with this woman..... because I can't burden myself with an overload of her emotion, the type that never loses its grip
lil background on this girl
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I'm 21, I met her when I was 4
she lives down the street
both of us born on the same day
creepy?
now for the situation,
this girls boyfriend broke it off with her this week apparently,last week I had her over, she called me up out of the blue said her man ditched her and she wanted to do something so I invited her over to smoke some weed with me an reminess on childhood days, but what I got was a shit load of sadness put up on my plate, of how he mistreats her, makes her feel bad, isn't what she wants in a relationship or a man, but claims she still loves him ( ffs you women are fools sometimes ) so I spent the whole night playing Dr. Phil before I grew tired and kicked her out.. I'm not rude, I had to work in the morning
problem: this girls calling me more and more, wanting to do stuff more and more, saying shes lonely and saying she needs someone in her life, now maybe I'm being very fucking blind, or ignorant but am I right to say this girls going to be falling for me in the near future? if so... hows the best way for a guy to handle this situation? do I bee the shoulder she can cry on ... If I do, I'm sure it will lead to the bedroom, thats what I want to avoid... any suggestions how to ease this aqward situation back into a friends stance?
I don't need this right now
I have a problem, she has a complex where she thinks she needs a guy in her life or shes not happy, shes on anti depressants, thinks shes ugly/fat ect., not ever going to have a decent relationship and although it doesn't matter, shes falling in love with me because I'm saying the things shes always wanted to hear... no not I love you or any of that shit, just good ol deep talk about relationships on a higher level, because I once was in her same spot, but instead of her seeing me telling her my old problems and how I had progressed through them to better days, she seems to be falling for me because of the mighty growing up from boy to man, is usually pretty sexy to a gal... I used to want to date her when I was younger, I now have absolutely no WANT to be in a relatioship with this woman..... because I can't burden myself with an overload of her emotion, the type that never loses its grip
lil background on this girl
----------------------
I'm 21, I met her when I was 4
she lives down the street
both of us born on the same day
creepy?
now for the situation,
this girls boyfriend broke it off with her this week apparently,last week I had her over, she called me up out of the blue said her man ditched her and she wanted to do something so I invited her over to smoke some weed with me an reminess on childhood days, but what I got was a shit load of sadness put up on my plate, of how he mistreats her, makes her feel bad, isn't what she wants in a relationship or a man, but claims she still loves him ( ffs you women are fools sometimes ) so I spent the whole night playing Dr. Phil before I grew tired and kicked her out.. I'm not rude, I had to work in the morning
problem: this girls calling me more and more, wanting to do stuff more and more, saying shes lonely and saying she needs someone in her life, now maybe I'm being very fucking blind, or ignorant but am I right to say this girls going to be falling for me in the near future? if so... hows the best way for a guy to handle this situation? do I bee the shoulder she can cry on ... If I do, I'm sure it will lead to the bedroom, thats what I want to avoid... any suggestions how to ease this aqward situation back into a friends stance?
I don't need this right now
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