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  • Moral Dilemma

    It's the picture perfect "What do I do scenario?", and I need serious answers.

    I am friends with a dude and a chick. Said dude and chick are dating. I am friends with them seperately, so I am not friends with either one because they are dating eachother. Got it? Ok.

    So the chick and this other dude, not the boyfriend, are getting kind of close. Nothing has actually happened in terms of activity, just alot of cuddling and lame bullshit that I don't want to see.

    The chick has cheated on people before.

    I want to tell the boyfriend to watch out for this other dude. Do I have the right or should I just stay the fuck out of it.

    I have made no decisions on what to do as of yet.
    Originally posted by Jeenyuss
    sometimes i thrust my hips so my flaccid dick slaps my stomach, then my taint, then my stomach, then my taint. i like the sound.

  • #2
    Well put yourself in his shoes. If your girl was cuddling with some other guy and it looked like she might cheat, would you want your buddy to tell you about it? Or would you want to find out when she dumps you or when you hear about her blowing the guy in the movies?

    If she's cheated before on the same guy, that is even more reason to tell him. If she's just cheated on other people well.. I'd still tell him, but that's just me.

    Bros before hoes.
    My father in law was telling me over Thanksgiving about this amazing bartender at some bar he frequented who could shake a martini and fill it to the rim with no leftovers and he thought it was the coolest thing he'd ever seen. I then proceeded to his home bar and made four martinis in one shaker with unfamiliar glassware and a non standard shaker and did the same thing. From that moment forward I knew he had no compunction about my cock ever being in his daughter's mouth.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by DoTheFandango View Post
      So the chick and this other dude, not the boyfriend, are getting kind of close. Nothing has actually happened in terms of activity, just alot of cuddling and lame bullshit that I don't want to see.

      The chick has cheated on people before.

      I want to tell the boyfriend to watch out for this other dude.
      If you're friends with both aside from their relationship with each other, I'd ask the girl how she feels about the first guy. Does she plan on terminating the relationship soon or does she want to play them both? If she wants to continue with both, I'd tell your guy friend that his girl is messing around with another dude and that unless he doesn't mind sloppy seconds he should break it off with the whore.

      Aint no cheating whore worth fighting over.... she should be kicked to the curb of the corner she works off of. ....then i'll swing by to check her out.

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      • #4
        Bros before Hoes indeed man - tell him about it, but don't go all drama queen on him about it. Just mention it to him, try to keep it casual. I like to do these things when Said Dude has just finished toking a fat one. Drunk would be a bad time.
        7:Knockers> how'd you do it Paul?
        7:Knockers> sex? money? power?
        7:PaulOakenfold> *puts on sunglasses* *flies away*

        1:vys> I EVEN TOLD MY MUM I WON A PIZZA

        7:Knockers> the suns not yellow, its chicken
        7:Salu> that's drug addict talk if i ever saw it

        1:chuckle> im tired of seeing people get killed and other people just watching simply saying "MURDER. RACISM. BAD"
        1:chuckle> ive watched the video twice now

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        • #5
          Fuck asking her, chicks that even think about cheating aren't going to tell the guy. They're going to keep snuggling and doing all that touchy-feely shit until they get "swept-up/lost in the moment" and end up fucking the guy.

          How does she feel about the guy? Bet you dollars and diamonds she's going to say he's "just a friend". Just a friend until she trips and falls on his dick!

          Damn Lucky number Slevin was a good movie~
          My father in law was telling me over Thanksgiving about this amazing bartender at some bar he frequented who could shake a martini and fill it to the rim with no leftovers and he thought it was the coolest thing he'd ever seen. I then proceeded to his home bar and made four martinis in one shaker with unfamiliar glassware and a non standard shaker and did the same thing. From that moment forward I knew he had no compunction about my cock ever being in his daughter's mouth.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Liquid Blue View Post
            Fuck asking her, chicks that even think about cheating aren't going to tell the guy. They're going to keep snuggling and doing all that touchy-feely shit until they get "swept-up/lost in the moment" and end up fucking the guy.

            How does she feel about the guy? Bet you dollars and diamonds she's going to say he's "just a friend". Just a friend until she trips and falls on his dick!

            Damn Lucky number Slevin was a good movie~
            I did enjoy it, I liked how alot of the scenes in the start were tiny and seemed unimportant until end. Gotta love the 'it all adds up scene' :P
            7:Knockers> how'd you do it Paul?
            7:Knockers> sex? money? power?
            7:PaulOakenfold> *puts on sunglasses* *flies away*

            1:vys> I EVEN TOLD MY MUM I WON A PIZZA

            7:Knockers> the suns not yellow, its chicken
            7:Salu> that's drug addict talk if i ever saw it

            1:chuckle> im tired of seeing people get killed and other people just watching simply saying "MURDER. RACISM. BAD"
            1:chuckle> ive watched the video twice now

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            • #7
              ok so I'll talk to her. but I doubt I'll get the truth. She knows I'm friends with her boyfriend.

              This is horse shit. I hate stupid high school stuff like this.
              Originally posted by Jeenyuss
              sometimes i thrust my hips so my flaccid dick slaps my stomach, then my taint, then my stomach, then my taint. i like the sound.

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              • #8
                I'd stay out of it unless he asks your advice. Personally, I think those girls that like to snuggle with platonic friends are weird and creepy, but just because she's weird and creepy doesn't mean she's going to cheat. It sounds like backwards advice, but I'd tell him if he doesn't really care about her, and not tell him if he does (because he's less likely to believe you or care). It sort of depends on the situation. Keep in mind, that if you tell him, there's a good chance your name is going to come up with her, so it's a good idea to talk to her first. What I've done in similar situations is to deal with the problem as it actually pertains to me. "Hey Kristin (stupid girls like this probably have a stupid name like Kristin), you know, it makes me really uncomfortable to see you cuddling with other dudes when you're dating my friend."
                5:gen> man
                5:gen> i didn't know shade's child fucked bluednady

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                • #9
                  Get them on video and show your buddy and watch him go ape-shit.
                  Then post the video on the internet and advertise it to the kids at school.

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                  • #10
                    hmm

                    personally, i would confront her and say "ya know thats not very nice on tony", as you want her to understand why this is wrong, but dont say "stop it or ill tell him" as that wont help. if she persists (even a little bit) tell him.

                    i know couples where even cuddling in a certain manner is gonna get you dumped.

                    what about the other guy? are you friends with him? is the boyfriend?
                    Reinstate Sarien
                    ph> AND THEN ME AND THE PLOINKIES WILL HEAD DOWN TO THE LOCAL CRUFFER FOR TEA AND WONKETS

                    Hal Wilker> Need I look recall the statement? And Suh.. control ya ho

                    "no, it's Monday, which of course means it's ethnic day, so ill be going with Rosalita"

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                    • #11
                      How long have they been dating?

                      If it's only been a month or two, I would probably not tell the guy. However, I'd still watch to see what she's doing and if it continues or worsens I would clue the guy in.

                      If it's a long-term relationship I would tell him immediately that I think his girlfriend might be cheating. That way he can confront her about it before she breaks his heart. At least he was warned -_-
                      Pandagirl!

                      (ph)>12 is just right

                      In the most dangerous game...warping will only prolong your defeat. ?go warpwars -Chao <ER>
                      1:Chao <ER>> what the FUCK?
                      1:Chao <ER>> I just adverted and no one came
                      1:Chao <ER>> at all
                      1:Mantra-Slider> chao
                      1:Mantra-Slider> you are in the wrong arena
                      Panda <ZH>> ?find chao <ER>
                      Chao <ER> - hero

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                      • #12
                        the two boys are better friends together than the boyfriend and I am. I am friends with the other dude, sorta, not so much because of this. In my mind he has as much to blame for this than the chick does.

                        The couple has been dating for like, 1.5 years.

                        This is stupid. I know this is going to get bad. I've already said enough as it is.
                        Originally posted by Jeenyuss
                        sometimes i thrust my hips so my flaccid dick slaps my stomach, then my taint, then my stomach, then my taint. i like the sound.

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                        • #13
                          Ouch! Yep she's gonna break his heart... and he might kill the guy.
                          Did she have the cheating reputation before these 2 years? and/or has she cheated on this guy before and they've since got over that fling.. and now here's another?

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by HeavenSent View Post
                            Ouch! Yep she's gonna break his heart... and he might kill the guy.
                            Did she have the cheating reputation before these 2 years? and/or has she cheated on this guy before and they've since got over that fling.. and now here's another?
                            She has cheated before. A couple times actually. But never with a friend of the guy. But she hasn't cheated yet. It could be platonic.

                            Who knows.

                            EDIT: Ok, you guys know what you told me to do? I did the opposite. Oh well, this will be interesting.
                            Originally posted by Jeenyuss
                            sometimes i thrust my hips so my flaccid dick slaps my stomach, then my taint, then my stomach, then my taint. i like the sound.

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                            • #15
                              Guys don't be friends with girls unless there's an agenda... which is, 'to get laid'. The loser that hangs with chicks on a seemingly platonic level is merely waiting to pounce at the right moment. Guys with girlfriends have a responsibilty to keep these kind of vultures away from their love muffin. Either tell the girl to not hang with the guy so much or tell the guy to keep the fuck away or you'll have to mess him up... even if you have to hire Mongo to do the job. If the two persist, then end it with the chick or you'll never kick the 3rd wheel.

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