Moral Dilemma

[DoTheFandango]

Guys don't be friends with girls unless there's an agenda... which is, 'to get laid'.

This is wrong, but whatever. I have a bunch of friends that are girls that I'm not trying to get in their pants. I doubt this is the case with this this though.

The loser that hangs with chicks on a seemingly platonic level is merely waiting to pounce at the right moment. Guys with girlfriends have a responsibility to keep these kind of vultures away from their love muffin. Either tell the girl to not hang with the guy so much or tell the guy to keep the fuck away or you'll have to mess him up... even if you have to hire Mongo to do the job. If the two persist, then end it with the chick or you'll never kick the 3rd wheel.

I see what you are saying though. I fucked up in the hand-off of being smooth and everything is going to shit.

Ok so I say to the boyfriend to "watch out". This, apparently, means that the guy and the chick have already fucked countless times. Now the other dude and chick hate me.

Oh well. I don't care at this point.

[Aquatiq]

Bros before hoes.

Yeah, people get pretty far in life following that philosophy.

[D1st0rt]

Yeah, people get pretty far in life following that philosophy.

That's not what bros before hos is all about. I wonder though, is there an equivalent female mentality?

[Liquid Blue]

Yeah, people get pretty far in life following that philosophy.

Elaborate?


EDIT- And fuck them if they hate you, if that guy was a really good friend of her boyfriend he should have known better. Ask yourself this- would they have cuddled like that if her boyfriend was in the same room? A year and a half and she's cheated before? Screw that girl, the guy probably wanted the best of both worlds- bang her and still be friends with the other guy.

[Facetious]

That's not what bros before hos is all about. I wonder though, is there an equivalent female mentality?

The female mentality is "backstab your friends as fast as possible."

[Jeansi]

1. Lock your weezer cd:s away for a week,
2. lose the nerd attitude (comes with lockin away weezer cd:s)
3. Grab the chick yourself.

[Squeezer]

Yeah, people get pretty far in life following that philosophy.

Oh shut up.

At least you'll never find a man marrying a woman because she has a flashy car and a nice apartment.

edit: Then again, lots of men marry for looks, which is just as shallow.

[Liquid Blue]

sucks for them when the looks go out the window at 40+

[kthx]

Not really.

Thats when you get divorced and marry another 18 year old, while buying her breast implants. I can't wait for me and my wife to turn 40.

[Hero*]

i finally agree wit lb. bros b4 hoes. tell the guy about it but dont make a huge deal over it. you would want to kno if ur girl was cheatin on you, right?

[Aquatiq]

That's not what bros before hos is all about. I wonder though, is there an equivalent female mentality?

That'd be "Chicks before dicks." I'm not saying ''don't tell him no matter what'', I'm just saying to be careful DTF. Sometimes it's best to just not get involved. Use your judgment. I can't believe the number of people here that don't even bat an eye at the fact that situations like these create a ton of potential risk for the Rat, played by DTF. Throw your "loyalties" aside, think about yourself first.

[DoTheFandango]

Everything has died down, sorta. I don't know the final outcome as of yet, but I really could give less of a shit at this point.

[Nickname]

even though the question is answered, my input.


A)Just friends with the dude: Tell him

B)Just Friends with the chick: Tell her to either dump him or don't

C)Friends with both (your situation): Tell her to make a choice, and stick by it. Tell her if she can't, you will tell your other buddy as it's the right thing to do. Basically give her a shot to fix it, then fix it yourself.

[Subjugation]

Serious answer: Have a homogaf 3-way swordfight with them.

[Squeezer]

That'd be "Chicks before dicks." I'm not saying ''don't tell him no matter what'', I'm just saying to be careful DTF. Sometimes it's best to just not get involved. Use your judgment. I can't believe the number of people here that don't even bat an eye at the fact that situations like these create a ton of potential risk for the Rat, played by DTF. Throw your "loyalties" aside, think about yourself first.

That is such a girl response.