Originally posted by Heaven
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Anyway, i'm sorry you think i'm going up against people, but I actually don't view this thread that way at all. From my outlook i'm providing my opinion on netbans and when they should be used. Qan was updating my knowledge on what happens in the game, and from what I can tell me and staff are pretty much aligned on how severe a netban is and when it should be used. There is no animosity here toward staff or any one person from my end. Sorry if it's not reciprocal but I can only do so much to make a change, other people have to meet half way, but I'm not going to lose sleep if someone wants to keep hating on me.
If someone writes a lot, and you don't like that or don't have time, then don't read it. I'm not here to care what people think about me, or who chooses to read or not. This is precisely the reason I never ?ignore evade. I do care about what you think about the ideas being discussed, but I post for myself... (in the sense that this is the least i can do in the name of fairness and helping the community), not to try and convince people. In other words as a community member I do my part and offer my view, from then on it's out of my hands. I might try to encourage something I really believe in strongly... but there's nothing wrong with caring about things. I guess alot of people would rather I was not a community member, but I don't wish that on other people. I can't do much about the past only about things from this point on, so I just want to try and get along with people or disagree in an adult way if we disagree.
I've actually read literature on changing peoples minds, because it came up in something/accidentally stumbled on it. Basically you can't change someone's mind, not in 2 hours, not with 100 forum posts either. You have to really know someone very well, and even then they have to want to be open to change on their own. The best you can do is live by example and maybe make a suggestion that over time would nudge them in your direction. So i don't come here with an intention to make you all think like i do. But i still think there is value in a healthy debate and sharing of ideas.
1. What I did here was find out if netban policy is changing, and I learned it's being based on cheating policy for league.
2. I offered suggestions on the duration of the netban.
3. I suggested a way to netban during the match so it actually means something for the two teams facing each other and doesn't effect the outcome of the game. Besides that I basically made a proposal about less evidence but a netban that lasts during match time only, just to see what qan would offer as a response in terms of things I maybe didn't think of, or maybe he has a good solution of his own.
4. I suggested that players can twitch stream their game and even use voice chat.
5. Less important, i let people who care know my stance on things in the game. Since some people seem to think I would be someone who spams, which has never happened. If i spammed in the past it would be me yelling in pub or on tw discord about something i think. I've never PM spammed anyone in 20 years.
I don't see a problem here with anything that I did. In the real world we have checks and balances for people in power, so it should be a good thing anytime a community member is involved.
Qan told me once that someone in his position sort of takes a back seat, he's right in a way... and i can definitely see why/sympathize with why he would say that. But i also disagree with him a bit - though i think he intended 'backseat' as not being overpowering or too dominating with conversation haha. It's true that i'm intentionally not taking a back seat on trench wars forums for various reasons... but there is no real down side to posting a lot, and a lot of the work i'm doing in game, with other people, and on discord is largely unaffected by my posts here. Also notice i defer to ogron and rabs expertise in a lot of threads here, in which i don't post, so while something may be of a personal nature to them? it's not personal for me, i'm just being myself and sharing ideas where i think i can provide good input.
i care about qans opinion and other TW staffs opinions (and peoples ideas in general too) and if qan or tw staff have a big problem i trust that they will let me know. Anyway, to some degree its probably not great to be highly opinionated if you want to help unite people... because you tend to become controversial and threaten the status quo... but i think if i'm consistent then over time people with open minds will eventually see i mean well, and that it's okay for people to not always see eye to eye and it's not a big problem... to me that's a good enough reason to post so people can not get along in a productive way a good way... i want to change the fact that someone might disagree on forums and the guy on "receiving" end will say to themselves "who the fuck is this guy? does he even play? why does he hate me? why is he out to get me?" this is why we have wars and shit in the world because everyone has a strong negative reaction and thinks the person must hate them if they don't agree. And things are not black and white like that... i've lived thirty years and have different experiences, chances are i'll have my own ideas and think differently about solving problems... that's okay, and it's okay if you disagree.
Over the years many people for example have told me they really dislike Beer hunter/henry saari. I've been frustrated by him too... but I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt i like BH because i compartmentalize things differently. In other words if someone doesn't do what you want, it doesn't make them a bad person, there is no equivalency there. BH to me is a very nice person, he tolerates a lot and learned how to not get triggered. I think he might be paranoid and overly cautious... might make decisions based on a fear response sometimes. But he's human. I don't hate the guy, i don't hate anyone. Do i like what he's done? (basically nothing) especially with DSB in 8 years? hell no. it pisses me right the fuck off. But i don't take that frustration and let it warp my sense of who he is as a human being. Life is too short to hate people.
anyway, cheers to whoever read this, and if not that's okay.
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