My dilemma.

[MirrorriM]

You want to be careful. If you stay and this feeling grows, eventually you may start to resent her/the relationship because you want to be free but instead you are trapped. After a while that could make things ugly.

If this is a strong feeling I say break it off, tell her youre not ready to settle down, and you want to date some more while youre still young. Then hope that once youre tired of that she takes you back (or you find someone better and then you win). Or, if you dont find someone better, crawl back on your knees proclaiming that you made a terrible mistake and no one is a better match for you then her.

[CrvenBan]

It's all about the "trueness" of love, the strength of character, ideals, principles, and weather you want your gf to do same things to guys you do to girls, or not.

Your pick, you can have a half nekked chick on the bed, giving her oil-massage and her just lifting her ass up, and you biting it once, hard, going my my my, and walking out, or you could meet an asian chick on a full nighttrain, and end up in a convo which leads into fetish and she telling you how she likes to get fucked really hard, and you asking her, what if I grabbed you by your throat and made you blow me, and she going I am wet just thinking about it, and you going: dear God, that's not funny.
It comes down to the level of bullshit you're willing to allow yourself to get away with, because, if you love her, you love her because she fits you on way more levels than just physical (which is generally not love), and then no hot-chick one night stand or casual relationship is more worth than an average jerk-off in the privacy of your own bathroom entertaining your fantasies and not risking the relationship.
And if you don't love her, then stop bullshitting yourself about how you do, and how she's perfect and how you don't want to be with any other girl all your life, well, if you get to cheat some.

Ain't harder than that...

[Ilya]

everything you just said is blah blah blah blah

scale of 1 to 10... hows her vagina?

[Noah]

Today, I'm 2 days away from being with the same girl for 1,5 years, and I really do love her, and I dont want to see it end.

But there's a feeling that's starting to grow on me, I'm not ready to stick with the same girl, nomatter how perfect she is for me. I'm in my prime, and I want to be able to fuck about, and not have any attachements. (Yes, shallow, I know, but what can I do?)

For each potential hot chick that is interested in me, this gets increasingly worse. I know several other guys with this, and they cheat.
I'm not going to cheat on her, that's for sure.

So it's either to break off, or just suck it up and spend my youth with just one.

I'm pretty sure everyone with a long time relationship gets this once in a while, and I'm wondering what do you guys do to cope with it?