spider is sad/people bash ward/galleleo says something random as shit: the thread

[Spider]

Yea Jeen, like you say, it totally is time to be selfish. I don't see any reason why my life has to (or can) revolve around her anymore. That's where I think the haters (of my ex, and my wuss approach) get this wrong. It is about me going on there and making myself happy. Not about myself trying to tear her up. For the time being I don't think that involves a girl, but it might.

To those of you who pointed out it sounded like a desperation letter, I have this to say. It was. I said all along I love(d) this girl. She fell out of love with me. I don't want to break up. But I'm in a smart guy and I know I can't stay with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Like Cops was saying, her friends were probably telling her to do this for months. Her new friends from Toronto who don't know me and have no consideration for my feelings most certainly were. If it was an issue at all. I doubt anyone was saying stay with that guy. It was my own self respect that made me do this now. Clearly I should have done it earlier, but I wasn't sure this was how she felt.

Ward, I don't think she'd go out with out. She's in law school now, the best one in the country. She'll probably from now on only date a combination of great education/old money. I could be wrong but I don't sense those from you. I don't have them. I'm sure that kind of thing was part of the problem too. I don't think she didn't want to be with me just because she couldn't wait another 6 months for me to move there.

Oh, also I think my manhood was too big. That was problem with my last girlfriend too. She couldn't take it.

[Cops]

Ward you're a cunt face, regardless if this is the internet or not Spider did seek people's advice because he is hurt and you made a joke about hooking up with his ex girlfriend. I know you can't be banned for this but under a Cops regime shit fucks like you would be gone right-a-fucking-way. Seriously, how insensitive are you? I don't even know why I'm asking, you have a total disdain for women and people on this forum, sometime I wonder why you even post at all. It's not like you contribute anything to these forums.

Spider I know how it is, the new friends don't know you or even care about your feelings, and the truth is they might not even be bad people they just want to see their friend happy and she's not happy so they're pushing her to do what makes her happy and I guess that means ending the relationship. Make some plans, like I said do what you want. I think me and Jeen both agree that you need to be selfish, go fuck around and meet some girls, that cock has been on lock down for 2 years, let it breathe a bit. I'm not saying turn into a slut but anyone who says fooling around is pointless is a prude or lying to themselves. Maybe you're not ready to start fooling around but give yourself some options.

[deathking]

To those of you who pointed out it sounded like a desperation letter, I have this to say.

She's in law school now, the best one in the country.

I understand why you are devastated, but you need to pull yourself together and throw that whinny letter into the garbage or save it for a future laugh. Instead, realize that brevity is the soul of wit. Write a short letter that concisely summarizes your feelings and intentions. Don't drag a point across two shitty paragraphs.

Btw, if she's in law school, the least you can do is pull your grammar together.

[Mantra-Slider]

you people suck

ok Im editing out this one.

[Eric is God]

So much feelings from guys that never had a life! Bless the imagination!

People who have busy lives do not have time to reflect; time to ponder their feelings. The most self aware and emotional people in this world are those who spend their lives alone, analyzing themselves and quietly obbsessing over every little moment and choice made.

This is why the most social people tend to be the most shallow while the anti social are considered "deep". Obviously this doesn't apply to everyone but I believe they generally hold true. There is no right or wrong between those two fictional people but personally, I'd rather be busy, shallow and happy then bored, self aware and depressed.

[Mantra-Slider]

wow eric?

wow

[Ward]

She'll probably from now on only date a combination of great education/old money. I could be wrong but I don't sense those from you.

I'm educated enough to be a student at Schulich, and enough money to drive 2004 5 series.

you made a joke about hooking up with his ex girlfriend.

I only asked her location, and obviously I'm not serious seeing as how I've enough girls on my nuts already.

Cops regime shit fucks like you would be gone right-a-fucking-way

LMAO who cares about YOUR regime, you're a nobody.

you have a total disdain for women and people on this forum

Disdain for women? You got me completely wrong, kid. You've yet to learn a lot. And people on this forum.. cant handle the truth which is pretty much what I speak all the time. If you wanna call it a "disdain" then I guess it is.

[Epinephrine]

I for one agree with Eric.

If you bottle these things up, on a lonely night you will be regretting everything that you've done. Perhaps you might even blame yourself in things you could have done different. Secretly when you are lonely, you will wish that she were there to comfort you. In short, it will be hard to 'get over' her because you never gave yourself a chance.

The best way is to make a clean break. Make sure you can never go back there again. Make her realize how bad she made you feel, then move on.

No need to go have sex with 1 woman a week like Gen said, enjoy your new found free time. Enjoy other things in your life you haven' had a chance to. Plan out your life, your own goals, your own ambitions without having to think 'oh I have to move to Toronto just for her and abandon my OWN dreams' and go from there.


And as for Panda's comment about being friends with all her Ex's, this is all fine and all until you eventually go out with someone who isn't cool with this, and then you will be forced to never talk to those ex's again. That and you might feel bad if one of those ex's has a great relationship and you are single.

[Eric is God]

wow eric?

wow

Can you guess which of the two I am? lol

Was that a wow because you were touched philisophical or because you think I'm going to be the next John Doe from the movie Seven?

[genocidal]

I didn't say to "go have sex with 1 woman a week." I told him that he should try to get laid within a month - that's not totally unreasonable. The thinking behind that is just to boost self-esteem.

[Eric is God]

I'm educated enough to be a student at Schulich, and enough money to drive 2004 5 series.

So THAT's where the unearned sense of accomplishment and entitlement comes from I know you were just responding to Cops' attacks but you have no idea how common that attitutde is for Schulich students. They rank third on the arrogance scale behind Waterloo comp sci students and everyone from Queens.

[Epinephrine]

So THAT's where the unearned sense of accomplishment and entitlement comes from I know you were just responding to Cops' attacks but you have no idea how common that attitutde is for Schulich students. They rank third on the arrogance scale behind Waterloo comp sci students and everyone from Queens.

Hahaha Waterloo what a joke school. Schulich moreso.

Seriously though, you have it wrong. UofT is the worse. Aka the 'best school in Canada (TM)', 'harvard of the north (TM)', 'greatest public university in the world (TM)', 'most cited medical school in the world (TM)', '4th best law school in the world (TM)'.



*Note that Ward doesn't go to Schulich MBA, he goes to Schulich undergrad

[Ward]

So THAT's where the unearned sense of accomplishment and entitlement comes from I know you were just responding to Cops' attacks but you have no idea how common that attitutde is for Schulich students. They rank third on the arrogance scale behind Waterloo comp sci students and everyone from Queens.

ROFL
i wanna see that scale

[Cops]

*Note that Ward doesn't go to Schulich MBA, he goes to Schulich undergrad

Most important thing you've said, it doesn't really matter that he keeps up a 60% average and gets his undergrad degree, once he gets his MBA or PHD then he come and talk to me about how successful he is, right now he's done nothing worth congratulating.

Let's play the past game!

Wark "A degree in English is pretty useless"

The general TW Forum populous "Actually, you're pretty useless"

"Women should act a certain way not that I'm a chauvinist or anything, Cops you don't even know man, you don't even know..."

"People on this forum can't handle the truth that's why they attack me not that I might be wrong about anything because I'm always right and I'm not open to the idea that I might be wrong"

Even if my comments were a direct attack, and they were it was totally warranted. Wark is a shit disturber that preaches the fact that he maintains a 60% and will eventually get his undergrad, not that he's working on his masters or anything... As far as room to talk about their education Wark is limited.

I'll be the bigger man here, congratulation's Wark! I'm so proud that you keep up a 60% average, you're education is vast superior to mine

[Facetious]

Do we really need to have this conversation again? Really?