I found out about Hikikomori awhile ago but I mentioned it to my room mate today and when he asked me to get him some of the info about it, I decided to post about it here as well.
It's a term for a social phobia, in which young kids (generally males) shut themselves in a room away from other people for years at a time. Their parents will bring them food, they'll piss into bottles and leave them outside the room, take baths once every six months- shit like that. I wish I was kidding about this, but Japanese culture is very lenient about it, and treats it as a phase that they will grow out of. Parents actually let this behavior continue and support it. Here are some disturbing quotes and pictures I've found, links to articles will be below:
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/15/ma...5japanese.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programme...nt/2334893.stm
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It's a term for a social phobia, in which young kids (generally males) shut themselves in a room away from other people for years at a time. Their parents will bring them food, they'll piss into bottles and leave them outside the room, take baths once every six months- shit like that. I wish I was kidding about this, but Japanese culture is very lenient about it, and treats it as a phase that they will grow out of. Parents actually let this behavior continue and support it. Here are some disturbing quotes and pictures I've found, links to articles will be below:
Her son is 17 years old. Three years ago he was unhappy in school and began to play truant.
Then one day, he walked into the family's kitchen, shut the door and refused to leave.
Since then, he hasn't left the room or allowed anyone in. The family have since built a new kitchen - at first they had to cook on a makeshift stove or eat take away food.
His mother takes meals to his door three times a day.The toilet is adjacent to the kitchen, but he only baths once every six months.
Then one day, he walked into the family's kitchen, shut the door and refused to leave.
Since then, he hasn't left the room or allowed anyone in. The family have since built a new kitchen - at first they had to cook on a makeshift stove or eat take away food.
His mother takes meals to his door three times a day.The toilet is adjacent to the kitchen, but he only baths once every six months.
After years of being bullied at school and having no friends, Y.S., who asked to be identified by his initials, retreated to his room at age 14, and proceeded to watch TV, surf the Internet and build model cars - for 13 years. When he finally left his room one April afternoon last year, he had spent half of his life as a shut-in.
One morning when he was 15, Takeshi shut the door to his bedroom, and for the next four years he did not come out. He didn't go to school. He didn't have a job. He didn't have friends. Month after month, he spent 23 hours a day in a room no bigger than a king-size mattress, where he ate dumplings, rice and other leftovers that his mother had cooked, watched TV game shows and listened to Radiohead and Nirvana. "Anything," he said, "that was dark and sounded desperate."
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/15/ma...5japanese.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programme...nt/2334893.stm
Post on Japan suicides reaching alarming level, and how companies are urging their workers to fuck more coming in the next post
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