Ask yourself a couple of questions. First of all, how close is your friendship? Is this a longtime friend, someone you met through a mutual friend, someone you also work with? Ask yourself what else will be affected besides your friendship. What is the nature of your current status with her? Can/do you jokingly flirt with each other? Do you regularly hang out with just the two of you, or are you always with a group? Do you know things about each other that you would rather not have someone you start having a relationship to know too early?
In case you haven't realized, I've been presenting questions with no answers or any advice towards specific answers. Ask yourself these questions (and any similar ones you might think of). You don't have to share your answers here, because that's not the point. The point is that you can answer these questions and know how those answers do or do not affect your decision. All the advice from anyone else will give you may be helpful, but because every situation is different and unique, you alone know what will work and what will not.
In case you haven't realized, I've been presenting questions with no answers or any advice towards specific answers. Ask yourself these questions (and any similar ones you might think of). You don't have to share your answers here, because that's not the point. The point is that you can answer these questions and know how those answers do or do not affect your decision. All the advice from anyone else will give you may be helpful, but because every situation is different and unique, you alone know what will work and what will not.
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