Originally posted by Falconeer
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Maybe I come across as undiplomatic sometimes with my wording because of years of trolling? but I didn't take trench wars community as being very PC (politically correct)... either. So i'm honestly not challenging anyone here. And I think it's a very good thing if someone makes an effort to try and change their ways and give back to the community... If you take a look at a few posts back in this thread; I wrote that preference based changes are 100% up to the community (so things like settings/gameplay etc). That doesn't mean I don't have preferences, but it definitely means I would *never* want to take away what is fun for a majority of people either. I think a lot of people are in this competitive mindset, so they take anything said on forums as being apart of that, and it's really not.
I think some people might be judging others and me without all the facts too? For example, I like helping and being a volunteer... because I'm a great optimist who believes we can actually revive this game. Some people call me delusional for that, or as the saying goes "The game is dead let it die" but I can't help but believe we can turn things around, it's in my nature. I've helped out a lot, I think people don't really see the whole picture with me... and sometimes we only see what we want to see. I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I'd like to think after 20 years of playing this game, that I belong to the community as much as anyone else does, for better or for worse.
Take a look at this reflection I found:
Can you take pleasure in the success of others? What happens to you when you are in conflict with other people and have different points of view? Are you worried that being compassionate might make you appear to be weak or soft? If other people make mistakes can you be compassionate toward them or do you blame them? When people are in conflict with you, are you able to stand back and see their point of view and treat them with respect?
I think that *because* it's a dying game that's more of a reason for us to unite, even when we disagree, and to build our zones back up, and respect one another, don't you?

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