Relationships

[Blanke]

You are what you eat from your head down to your feet.

What?

Oh, I just got it.

[Squeezer]

I think it's more fun being single then in a relationship. After over a year, finally, FREEEEEDOM! :P

no.

take it from someone who is just ending a 16 month drought. It'll get to ya.

[Adamant]

Well today, I talked to my ex. It's a bit awkward but we're cool as friends. I dunno if I wanna start looking for another girl 2 days after the break up. Not that I haven't gotten over it, but its a bit...pimpish.

You aren't over her yet, trust me but give it some time and you will be. Don't go looking for another girl right away maybe after a couple months find someone and have a fun relationship that isn't really intended to last for a long time, that's what I did and it worked out great because it got me over my previous gf and gave me a new outlook about the whole dating scene.

Some words of wisdom that my grandpa gave me after the breakup "women are like streetcars, if you miss one there's another one 10 minutes behind it"

PS. Da1 I have the grammatically correct version of the saying, ive been using it as an msn nick for years and your spelling is just wacked :P

[Fit of Rage]

no.

take it from someone who is just ending a 16 month drought. It'll get to ya.

Oh I don't know. I've been single for 17 months and I'm pretty content.

[Pandagirl!]

Yep yep, it's quite a nice change. I can finally hit on hot guys without the worry of a boyfriend finding out. ^-^ I'm sure eventually I'll get tired of it though, so I'll start dating again.

[Tibro]

let me just say.. NEVER read a website for love advice, that must be the dumbest thing ever,

there is no online tutorials for relationships ffs

[1ight]

All I can say is, be yourself, if the girl wants you to change she isn't the one for you, just be yourself and find that girl that likes you just the way you are. There is no need to haste things up, since eventually a relationship should end in marrige, imo.

If you are going to find someone to live with for the rest of your life, then you really need to be yourself as I said. Also love isn't only about feelings and emotions. It is also something that forms up when you spend your time with your beloved, at least from my point of view. And if you think love is only fucking and kissing w/e, then you are wrong. Of course that is a way of showing that you love the one you love, but it is not love. :>

I mean you can go fuck with anybody without loving em, just to feed your lust.

I've been madly in love about 3-4 years ago. It was a special girl, eventually I just hesitated, and got myself a brokenheart shattered in thousands of pieces. As melodramtic and flexmatic (don't know how it is spelled) getting over things can be quite hard. As a melodramtic person, I'm kinda touchy. So as I said it has been 3½-4 years now, and I'm about to almost get over this girl. I'm not even sure yet if I have fully recovered from it. Time will tell.

As it says in the bible, from the book of the preacher ( or w/e it is called in english) he says that everything has its own time in life. As trowing stones has its own time, while gathering the stones has its own time. In this case, finding someone has its own time, while seeking that one has its own time. Life is a school, imo, you learn from your misstakes and you move on.

For me its hard to hear that someone else have had heart problems like you Dchao. Anyway the future will tell, being friends isn't that bad, its much better then just ignoring the person for years.

For the future, if you fall in love with someone, try to get a strong bond as friends at first. I know my friend's friend started dating with his friend that he had knewn for years. And basically there was no problem in the relelationship since both knew each other very good.

I hope you get over the sitiuation, and in the future find the one you was seeking for, the one that loves for who you are, and you in the opposite loves her for who she is. Take care, be strong!

[Ilya]

just tell everyone she had herpies.

i fear this is being tragically overlooked.

[Jeenyuss]

I saw it and appreciated your effort.

[ZeUs!!]

A remote controlled car! In the post!

[Mr. Peanuts]

no.

take it from someone who is just ending a 16 month drought. It'll get to ya.

Depends what you're looking for.

[Adamant]

if you fall in love with someone, try to get a strong bond as friends at first.

Wise words but be wary of falling into the "friend zone" because if you get stuck in there the game's over. To avoid this you gotta know when to make the next move, enough said.

[Da1andonly]

Adamant, back in '98 when I started playing "for real", not using random names, I felt that "The one and only" was too long for a name. :P

[Tone]

Wise words but be wary of falling into the "friend zone" because if you get stuck in there the game's over. To avoid this you gotta know when to make the next move, enough said.

what if you sleep with the person a few times, then fall more into the friend zone? less stuck?

[Nickname]

I think you should all be consulting me for advice. I dated my ex for 3 1/2 years, had enough, ended it, contineud to nail her with no ill effects (THATS RIGHT ILYANDER, NO ILL EFFECTS) and decided to stop nailing her, and she took that fine too.


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