I need your advice

[Suh]

Usually, compulsive liars trip themselves up eventually, make a mental log of stuff she says, and one day when she contradicts or is inconsistent about something she said to you a while ago, make sure she knows that you're onto her by perhaps saying something like "I thought you told me such and such a thing...", you can use this to you and your mate's advantage. From this, she should learn to stop lying because she's only going to get found out by you one way or another.

Just be subtle about it, confronting it insensitively could only make things worse, and both of them may end up hating you for it.

i know this guy who was given 3 months to live due to cancer, 4 months ago, id say thats a trip up...

[Mr. Peanuts]

Yet completely unrelated?

[Suh]

naw the guys a complusive liar, shit like, i did this, i did that, i smoked this i smoked that, i screwed this i screwed that.

he told every1 he had throat cancer, and seemed to time it to when every1 went to uni so that he wouldnt have to face anyone. he has yet to show proof or develop any level of illness. yet he should have died of cancer a month ago, he may be telling the truth, but it really is "the boy who cried wolf".


i thought that was related but i guess im just too damn blonde

[Mr. Peanuts]

OR maybe I'm too blonde. I get you now, it annoys me how slow I am.

[Subjugation]

If it's just your roomate, and not a close friend, I would just stay out of it for this reason:

Consider your evidence---You say you have proof that she lied about her GPA, but have no proof that she wasn't a virgin (and it's going to be nearly impossible to get empirical evidence to the contrary). Even if you tell your roomate, I would guess that he wouldn't want to believe that she lied to him about something so important to him. He'll probably elect not to believe the information, or will just become emotionally conflicted. Your roomate will probably go into denial and say, "Well, just because she lied about her grades doesn't mean she was lying about everything else, fuck you Bio."

I suggest that you keep your mouth shut until you can present overwhelming evidence that she can't be trusted, because like Peanuts said, even when confronted with real proof, exceptional liars will fall back on their lying skills to create enough doubt about the evidence to retain credibility.

[NaiLed]

a girl at my school said she was dying for cancer, everyone was really upset and gave her lots of attention. they found out she was lying and everyone now hates her

edit: sorry

[ZeUs!!]

You should definately not take advice from me

Edit: That's a piece of advice

[Tone]

sarien sucks

blow her scam wide open while looking her strai(gh)t in the EYES. be so direct that your like a laywer

[Tone]

no YOU IDIOTS dont just ignore them. you are a bunch of pussies. you look them in the eyes and expose all their lies. you make the situation so insanely ackward by comming right out with all their lies right in front of their face, that you have no idea what theyd be able to say. you pussies probably would feel to ackward and shy about doing something like that

Edit: and thats BULLSHIT. it IS your business if a so-called friend whos supposed to be a friend downright LIES like that too you. you have the right to confront. whats wrong with you people? hes talking about a friend here let alone anyone else

[Sarien]

Yes. You should follow Tone's advice, because quite obviously he is a winner at communicating effectively with other people, all while being able to make and maintain friendships.




I tried to add another ounce of sarcasm, but the forum couldn't take it.

[Tone]

sarien obviously has some sort of autistic spectrum disorder. he thinks if a friend lies to you its none of your business. maybe hes just a phony and wants to keep phony lie filled frendships. thats his idea or good social health

[Sarien]

[Subjugation]

Extra points for creativity. +A

[Ilya]

is she asian?

[Ilya]

post her boobs