You know, I always thought women were getting the bad end of the deal in the middle east. I always asked my mom if she ever felt inferior and trust me (she's not one to give a brain washed answer as she's often times the head of the household). She always told me back in Iran that her father treated her and her sisters like princesses; as well as other fathers she knew from school. She only complained that the government/fundamentalist people and maybe a school teacher was ever obsessive over the head dresses the girls ever had to wear. Yes her marriage was arranged, but parents choose only the best of candidates for their daughter (her sisters weren't arranged, only hers because they wanted to ensure she found someone being that the times in Iran were getting a little harsh after the revolution). My mom never had any problems with any of it. I thought she was naive at first, but looking at American history, even European history. Women were surely more mistreated by practically everyone. More women here are raped and abused by their fathers/other family members or false friends (shawls/head dresses were actually implemented in Iran to protect women from soldiers raping them from foreign lands). Parents treat their sons with more regard whereas the daughter was bred to be a mother and a housewife (Just because a middle eastern woman wasn't offered jobs didn't mean they weren't treated royally by their own families. My grandparents treated their daughters with more regard than their sons who they had to actually work hard to earn something in the cruel world whereas the daughters were pampered with things that came to them.) Women didn't get their rights until what like 1927 here in America? Is gender discrimination not around anymore (If you are not sure, the answer is no. It's still around)? Weren't women that actually had a right mind, or had ambitious qualities considered a temptress/vixens/witches? Some were jailed, burned and beaten to death for these reasons.
Times have changed for the better for women though, they're finally getting some deserved respect here albeit some had to achieve in ways that they probably had to do something sexually to earn a spot at the top. I'm not saying that middle eastern women didn't have it rough either, but fuck I think everyone needs to realize the shit they put their own women through before they criticize what the middle east has done just because they have to cover their faces. Stop telling everyone why they're fucked up because in truth you yourself (speaking to every country in general) have some fuck ups that you don't want to talk about.
In conclusion: Fix your own faults first or just shut the fuck up.
Times have changed for the better for women though, they're finally getting some deserved respect here albeit some had to achieve in ways that they probably had to do something sexually to earn a spot at the top. I'm not saying that middle eastern women didn't have it rough either, but fuck I think everyone needs to realize the shit they put their own women through before they criticize what the middle east has done just because they have to cover their faces. Stop telling everyone why they're fucked up because in truth you yourself (speaking to every country in general) have some fuck ups that you don't want to talk about.
In conclusion: Fix your own faults first or just shut the fuck up.
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