fuck

[the_paul]

I realize his ex-wife doesn't hate him - she wants him back. (And this is besides the fact that she's driving a car that he bought, and living in a luxury apartment that he's paying for because of the divorce). She's the one who wanted the marriage in the first place and the one who kept trying to make it work after multiple affairs. He never loved her and never wanted the marriage, hence the affairs. He was never happy with her because she was never home and never depended on him - she was always off saving the world in Nigeria or Kenya or something. Like I said, the night he kissed her, she asked to sleep with him and he left the situation and called me right away. He feels really guilty about destroying their marriage and hurting her, but he knows if he stays with her that he'll just hurt her again.

No, I don't have little self worth. When I talked to him last night I gave him a piece of my mind and laid it out for him. Yes, I said that if he wanted another chance then he could have it. But I let him know that things won't be the same. If he truly wants another chance, he's going to have to sacrifice for it. I told him what has to change in the relationship, and if he can't handle it then it's done. He's very bad at compromising because he grew up basically homeless because both of his parents abandoned him - he was back and forth between Taiwan and the US and never had a home or someone to look after him. He got to where he was entirely on his own, so he's used to doing things his way. I told him that if he wants to continue with me, that has to change.

To be honest, I'm expecting that when I see him Thursday he's not going to want to change. He might surprise me, but I don't think he's going to want a second chance.

Also, TagMor, Thai <> Taiwanese.

Tag me in Zyph tag me in I got this one.

Why does it seem like every time you post the plot thickens and add some new element that makes you more and more fucking dense?

Multiple affairs? At first with his ex wife it was one affair, now it's multiple affairs. I hate to break it to you, if he was willing to cheat on his wife multiple times, why is he not going to cheat on some random 21 year old bimbo thats willing to forgive him multiple times too? What makes you think he's suddenly changed for some random girl when he didn't give a fuck and cheated on his wife?

He didn't love her, so he cheated on her multiple times. He cheats on you multiple times, but in this case it's because of how he grew up not because he doesn't love you!!! Really? Did going to college make you legally retarded? Have you killed all your brain cells from your 4 loko parties? He cheated on his wife and justified because she was away doing humanitarian work like a bitch, but when he goes to asia and skullfucks the thai version of hannah montana that's much more understandable because he grew up poor and his job is stressful.

You have got to be the world's most retarded, most naive human being. You've got what, 20 males in here telling you that you're being a fucking retard, but you know better because you're in love. I'm just going to go on the record here and say we don't give a shit when you come back here worried because "they ran into bad weather and had to stay the night in a hotel but I know nothing is going to happen because we're in love and he wants to change." No, he doesn't, he wants to keep raw dogging random skanks and guess what, you're one of them.

[Money]

typical brainwashed female trying to find excuses as to why it's ok that he just cheated on you by getting his dick sucked by probably some hot ass bitch who sings as well as whitney houston. You said it happened in a karaoke bar? Dick sucking doesn't just randomly happen at karaoke bars, this guy definitely had to spit at least a little game to get this girl, which means he had several oppurtunities to realize what he was doing was wrong, but no, he chose to get his dick wet

the sad part is you're willing to stick with this guy because you have absolutely no self worth. There will be zero trust, you will be miserable everyday thinking he's cheating on you (when he probably is) and the worst part is you're young and should be having fun with random dudes getting trashed at parties but you're stuck crying over a 33 year old. Seriously?

Fuck bitches

poty

[Money]

Half your age plus seven is the youngest you go, so the oldest is your age minus seven times two.

nice, so this 17 year old im dating is just right!

[D1st0rt]

I'm expecting that when I see him Thursday he's not going to want to change.

Even with the desire to change it is unlikely he possesses the capacity at this point

[paradise!]

You'd get to take off the veil when you're in the house. My parent's are really nice.

luff u gran

[paradise!]

I'm on it.

So his ex wife who can't hate him too much to still be willing to drive him two and a half hours is picking him up? You do realize she has a pussy right? You realize he has a dick he likes to stick into girls that may as well be blow up dolls right(Yes, including you)? Don't be surprised when they have 'car troubles'.

Honestly though YOU'RE the reason guys cheat, because you have so little self worth that we can do whatever we want to you and you'll still take us back. So please, grow something that somewhat resembles a brain and lay off the Disney specials. You deserve what you got.

Also, any guy that shows any sympathy for your situation just wants to see you naked. Aka that 'friend' that came over that you swore nothing would happen with. Honestly, are you always this dumb?

holy fuck this post is on point.

[gran guerrero]

You'd get to take off the veil when you're in the house. My parent's are really nice.

[Jerome Scuggs]

i think it's about time to start getting some odds going. perhaps start a TW pandagirl cheating pool. assuming pandagirl does the wrong thing and takes this dude back, what are the odds of him cheating again within the next three months? what are the odds we see this thread again? what are the odds pandagirl doesn;t learn, again? and how much should we be betting here?

[Pandagirl!]

Yeah they know him but they don't know that he was married before or any of that stuff. They really like him, but yeah, they don't know about the drama.

[Ilya]

do your parents know you're dating this pervert?

WHERE ARE THE PARENTS ??????????????

[Pandagirl!]

I'm expecting that when I see him Thursday he's not going to want to change.

No

[D1st0rt]

he's either going to change

[Pandagirl!]

I'm on it.

So his ex wife who can't hate him too much to still be willing to drive him two and a half hours is picking him up? You do realize she has a pussy right? You realize he has a dick he likes to stick into girls that may as well be blow up dolls right(Yes, including you)? Don't be surprised when they have 'car troubles'.

Honestly though YOU'RE the reason guys cheat, because you have so little self worth that we can do whatever we want to you and you'll still take us back. So please, grow something that somewhat resembles a brain and lay off the Disney specials. You deserve what you got.

Also, any guy that shows any sympathy for your situation just wants to see you naked. Aka that 'friend' that came over that you swore nothing would happen with. Honestly, are you always this dumb?

I realize his ex-wife doesn't hate him - she wants him back. (And this is besides the fact that she's driving a car that he bought, and living in a luxury apartment that he's paying for because of the divorce). She's the one who wanted the marriage in the first place and the one who kept trying to make it work after multiple affairs. He never loved her and never wanted the marriage, hence the affairs. He was never happy with her because she was never home and never depended on him - she was always off saving the world in Nigeria or Kenya or something. Like I said, the night he kissed her, she asked to sleep with him and he left the situation and called me right away. He feels really guilty about destroying their marriage and hurting her, but he knows if he stays with her that he'll just hurt her again.

No, I don't have little self worth. When I talked to him last night I gave him a piece of my mind and laid it out for him. Yes, I said that if he wanted another chance then he could have it. But I let him know that things won't be the same. If he truly wants another chance, he's going to have to sacrifice for it. I told him what has to change in the relationship, and if he can't handle it then it's done. He's very bad at compromising because he grew up basically homeless because both of his parents abandoned him - he was back and forth between Taiwan and the US and never had a home or someone to look after him. He got to where he was entirely on his own, so he's used to doing things his way. I told him that if he wants to continue with me, that has to change.

To be honest, I'm expecting that when I see him Thursday he's not going to want to change. He might surprise me, but I don't think he's going to want a second chance.

Also, TagMor, Thai <> Taiwanese.

[Zazu]

typical brainwashed female trying to find excuses as to why it's ok that he just cheated on you by getting his dick sucked by probably some hot ass bitch who sings as well as whitney houston. you said it happened in a karaoke bar? dick sucking doesn't just randomly happen at karaoke bars, this guy definitely had to spit at least a little game to get this girl, which means he had several oppurtunities to realize what he was doing was wrong, but no, he chose to get his dick wet

the sad part is you're willing to stick with this guy because you have absolutely no self worth. there will be zero trust, you will be miserable everyday thinking he's cheating on you (when he probably is) and the worst part is you're young and should be having fun with random dudes getting trashed at parties but you're stuck crying over a 33 year old. seriously?

fuck bitches

I'm quoting this too.
Why in earth are you dating a 33 yr old ASIAN who has cheated on his wife before. You think he'll learn? I'm a guy, I'll tell you... NO.
And why do guys cheat? Cuz girls get boring and then there are other girls around that seem to be more attractive, more of a challenge, more of an adventure. Guys are hunters. They want to hunt something down and feel proud of themselves after having shot it.

So basically you gotta spice up yourself and become more attractive. Drinking and studying 24/7 won't do the trick.

But really.. Who cares.. Get rid of that loser already and to quote my homie Mythril:

the worst part is you're young and should be having fun with random dudes getting trashed at parties but you're stuck crying over a 33 year old. seriously?

[Jones]

typical brainwashed female trying to find excuses as to why it's ok that he just cheated on you by getting his dick sucked by probably some hot ass bitch who sings as well as whitney houston. you said it happened in a karaoke bar? dick sucking doesn't just randomly happen at karaoke bars, this guy definitely had to spit at least a little game to get this girl, which means he had several oppurtunities to realize what he was doing was wrong, but no, he chose to get his dick wet

the sad part is you're willing to stick with this guy because you have absolutely no self worth. there will be zero trust, you will be miserable everyday thinking he's cheating on you (when he probably is) and the worst part is you're young and should be having fun with random dudes getting trashed at parties but you're stuck crying over a 33 year old. seriously?

fuck bitches

i'm quoting this