Ending a relationship

[Bioture]

I started reading this thread and was like "oh this is nice, the tw community is coming together to help someone with their opinions." then it turned to this self-centered talk about weight loss.

typical.

Anyway back to the topic, first cut is the deepest. Your one-night stands, while legitimate, will undoubtedly bring up something about your ex (unless you can completely detach sex and emotions.)

Was it freedom that you seek? Good time with your friends? Then maybe the constant here is you - you're getting everything that you want and yet you're still feeling lonely. So there's your poison. But while you're trying to figure that out, try not to stress about things you have no control over. You saw the end coming, I'm guessing she saw the end coming, now just let it take it's course...

[Cylor]

Eastbound and dumb

What a bitchcuntwhoreface! Bitch! She was all up on your shit and you needed to be like, Chill Bitch- this is my life. I fuckin roll punches, heard? Peace to the gawds, homie, sounds like you are really over her. Fuck that bitch for wanting to spend time with you: didn't she know better, after three years? You've got mates that need wingmen. Rip that medical sex like a tall water pipe. But with friends. We all know how difficult that conscience can be all by our lonesome, can't we? Find a new addiction: games, health, weight, games (&theircorollaryforums). Frown upon the daydrink. 10 shots should keep a smile on your face come sundown. The best way to get over her is not to think about her alone, feeling the emotions you can't in addition to hers. Pretend she is wark/Mystery and axe her ass from the leet squad you rep. Tell the masseuse your new chat. Visit uncharted private arenas together. Laugh at the voyeurs who come to moderate. When she doesn't go 1:1, you know her time is done. Axe and cycle. The more members the better. Welcome the powerful members' alpha male advice: let it penetrate, deeply. Re-member that he is The Man, everywhere. When he sprays you with his speech, know that he treats you like a receptive female who will docilely ingest every dripping word. Freedom means doing whatever you want. Depict people how you like; only you know what goes on between another and you. The fact that you lied won't make it easier, but you'll at least get the advice you want to hear. If you need one more for your twd match: go back and re-recruit your axee, use her until the game is over or until someone else comes back from afk, then axe. ?ignore her attempts to talk to you. What's the difference between you and Mr. guerrero? He obviously has his cake, and can eat it, too. Seriously: get over her and onto calories. It's called being healthy.

[Cops]

luls at anyone who eats less than 1000 calories per day, fucking morons.

[Ilya]

cylor no one is going to read that unless you split it into paragraphs

[raizin]

cylor no one is going to read that unless you split it into paragraphs

i read it :-(

[Exalt]

I've seen the research, but I've never seen what the research says in practice. I feel like a lot of that research is based on correlation with other events that cause weight gain - such as "Oh, I drank a diet pop, now I'm allowed to eat this donut."

I drink diet pop every day. That first article talks about how aspartame causes you to have sugary cravings. Well I just finished a can of Diet Dr. Pepper, and I'm craving celery. My roommates actually make fun of me a because I have chocolate that my boyfriend bought me a month ago that's probably going stale because I never have cravings to eat it. I actually haven't even opened it.

I feel like research like that needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Sure, if you drink diet pop and then reward yourself for drinking diet by eating something high-calories, of course you're going to get fat. If you work out then pig out, of course you won't be losing a substantial amount of weight.

It never ceases to amaze me how stupid some people are.

Diet soda is not a good substitute for regular soda. That is like saying "I used to smoke cigs, but now I only dip!" Sure, you aren't dying from lung cancer, but now you have throat cancer.


See, to lower those "calories" in a regular soda, they have to remove the fatty acids and the sugar in the drink (fatty acids are actually nutritious), and in turn it takes away the flavor of it as well. The only BAD fat is trans fat, and there is none in soda.

To replace the flavor that is now gone from your shitty diet drink, they put in Aspartame, which is 180 times sweeter than sugar. It also gives you all kinds of life threatening diseases, but we won't go into that.


To lose weight, eat more food, just the right kinds. When you have a salad, don't eat iceburg lettuce.... that's useless and won't fill you up. Eat romaine lettuce... its healthy for you and fills you up. Simple stuff here. Also, use italian dressing on your salad instead of thousand island and you all of a sudden are eating healthy as fuck. Good job! You are now a fatty with a good diet, and one day you might learn to exercise! At that point, you can pretty much eat anything you want, because it is pretty fucking hard to overeat yourself and pack on pounds when you actually exercise and burn calories.

But hey girls, keep being a fatty and keep thinking that diet soda is going to help you with those weight problems! When you die of a brain tumor, at least you will feel confident in knowing that you drank about 5 less calories per can by switching to diet!!! FUCK YEAH!

[Material Girl]

They say diet soda can make you gain weight but I went through a phase of drinking it ALL the time without eating much and it never made me gain. I'm waiting for someone to put out a diet soda sweetened with stevia. More expensive but worth it!

[Jason]

1.) i have had a few severely bad breakups

2.) i know more of sadness, the kind of soul-crushing desolation you wouldn't wish upon your wost enemy, than just about anyone

3.) the best advice that's been offered in this thread, and the only thing that is certain, is that time and time alone will bring you closure and allow your wounds to heal

and

4.) material girl is a lifetime-movie-network-watching, cosmopolitan-reading bimbo. talking about eating your feelings? are you fucking serious? i wish i could punch you in the tits.

p.s. as far as coping in the short term while you're waiting around on father time, it's really just mind over matter. avoid situations that remind you of her. avoid situations that give your mind the chance to wander to her. learn to recognize triggers that bring about negative thoughts and feelings and then pretend those triggers are some shithead in subspace you don't like. and then pretend that shithead is in elim, and it's down to just you and him. you need one kill and you win. blow that motherfucker to pieces.

[Saturn V]

should break up like bajorans do

[gran guerrero]

4.) material girl is a lifetime-movie-network-watching, cosmopolitan-reading bimbo. talking about eating your feelings? are you fucking serious? i wish i could punch you in the tits.

whoa whoa whoa

she has to post them first

[Epinephrine]

If you're going to drink diet soda, just drink some water. It's better for you and it's... free.

[project dragon]

They say diet soda can make you gain weight but I went through a phase of drinking it ALL the time without eating much and it never made me gain.

They say rocks can prevent tiger attacks but I went through a phase of carrying cocks in my bag ALL the time while living in the city and a tiger never came and attacked me.

[Pandagirl!]

If you're going to drink diet soda, just drink some water. It's better for you and it's... free.

Technically diet pop is free for me as well, because our university considers water or pop equivalent at the cafes.

Also, Exalt, nowhere in my post did I say that I'm trying to lose weight, or that I'm failing to do so, or that I'm starving myself to do so. I eat healthy because I want to, and I work out in the gym as often as my schedule allows. So please stop lecturing me on how to lose weight, because it's not exactly a secret as to what one must do to shed calories.

[Material Girl]

It bothers me when people say that women should eat 1200-2000 calories a day because I can only have less than 1000 to avoid gaining weight.

I kind of think big thighs can be sexy with the right pants. Ever see a bigger girl wearing those sexy wide-flared pants and think she looks hot? I know I have...

...BUT you can never be too rich or too thin!

[DoTheFandango]